I received this message, a wonderful piece this morning from a female friend and want to share with you. Kindly read, it got me thinking the youngsters of today.
Welcome to Ghanaian campuses where little girls
are practising 'wifely functions'! Just visit the boys'
hostels and you would be disappointed to find out
that it is now common for a girl to live in with a
course mate. It is now common for her lover to
give her the popular compliment 'you look sexy
my gal' and she would gladly reply 'thank you
honey' with a flirty voice and a romantic smile.
Who is her lover? A 300 level student whose CGPA
is barely up to 1.78! And they are aiming for the
next best couple award for the session by the
departmental association. So, the girl need to live
in with him to prepare along.
What nonsense! It seems that some girls suddenly
loose their senses immediately they gain
admission. I've seen that some of them have no
more sense of caution, honour and dignity. They
would change their wardrobes and acquire a new
set of make ups just to look 'campussy' and sexy
enough for the guys. In months, they would start
sleeping around with little boys. I mean boys who
collect pocket money from their uncles! Dirty boys
who most of the time are infected with sexually
Hey! I want you to know that you were sent to
school to obtain a degree not a disease. The
campus is called a school; school not sex! You
are on campus to receive education not
ejaculation. You are here to master the use of a
pen not the pleasures of a penis. Wake up girl! Do
some thinking. Your future is greater than the 'best
You cook for a boy you are more intelligent than.
You give your virginity to a boy who will definitely
leave you after graduation. You play wife to a boy
who cannot even care for himself. Oh, you have
given too much. Enough! Open your eyes! Can't
you see you're being foolish? You are passing
through the fears of unwanted pregnancies yet you
are opening your legs to a coward who cannot
stand before your father. And when you eventually
gets pregnant, he would brutally advise you to
abort it and you would timidly agree; then face the
consequences later. What a shame!
You may master the use of condoms but you can't
master the punishment of your conscience.
Don't you know you are bringing shame to your
family? Don't you know that you are cursing your
mother by accepting to sleep with a boy (not even
a man) without her consent? I cautioned a girl
against sleeping around and she replied 'Sheddy, I
don't sleep around; its only one boyfriend I have
and am faithful to him'. What impunity! That's
classified harlotry. And don't you know that
sleeping with a man without your father's
blessings is bringing a curse to your future? What
happened to your cultural values? Somewhere in
your heart you know he would use you and dump
you; so why are you setting up yourself for a
heartbreak? I want to remind you that you are a
lady and one day you may get married. And your
husband would know that you are such a dirty
bitch who sleeps with anything in trousers. The
greatest gift a lady would give to her husband on
the wedding night is her virginity less lost it out of
(rape) not the certificate of best couple of the year
on campus! The other gifts for the rest of her life
are her care and character not her curves and
complexion! Real men know this; so, get it
Those treacherous boys would call you 'sexy' and
you would answer? Oh, sorry! They touch your
breast and you would smile? They would ask you
out and you would oblige? Oh, you are indeed a
mistake. Am not saying that you should be rude or
never live a 'social life' but I want you to think
deeper than you are currently doing. I want to turn
your attention back to your books.
You are not in school for breast exhibition. So, pay
less attention to those boobs and give more
attention to your books!
You are not in school for cat walking show.
You are rather here to show us the dignity of
You are here to prove to us that you are costly.
So, why make yourself so cheap?
I am writing this with both love and pain in my
heart and that's why am sounding stern. I know
about two girls now that have been living with
their boyfriend since year one and as it is now
they can't even even count how many abortions
they had for that same boy sch bae it's now like a
normal thing to them, the last one she did almost
took her life and that made her bleed for 4months
imagine how you do feel with ordinary 4 dayz of
menstruation left alone living with it for months..
As a matter of fact one of them have damaged her
fallopian tube due to excessive of contraceptives
she has taken to prevent pregnancy. I want you to
look beyond now and think of what advise you
would give your own daughter when you become a
mother. I hope I have not offended you...if I have,
To the decent girls I have seen on campus: do not
be swayed by these evil. Be consistent and keep
celebrating your purity. I am always proud of you.
And God is more proud of you. Please share this
message with all your friends on this campus and
let's restore some dignity.